{"id":1472,"date":"2024-04-02T14:40:10","date_gmt":"2024-04-02T14:40:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gaiamorrissette.com\/empressgaia\/?p=1472"},"modified":"2024-04-02T14:40:11","modified_gmt":"2024-04-02T14:40:11","slug":"kink-and-breaking-the-gender-stereotypes-author-mistress-dana-pharant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gaiamorrissette.com\/empressgaia\/kink-and-breaking-the-gender-stereotypes-author-mistress-dana-pharant\/","title":{"rendered":"Kink and Breaking the Gender Stereotypes &#8211; Author Mistress Dana Pharant"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As a general rule, I notice that men and women have been conditioned in ways that, at one time, supported the functioning of society<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most men have been taught to take what they want. To go for jobs even if they are not fully qualified for it. To be the one to &ldquo;make the moves&rdquo; when it comes to sex or dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meanwhile, most women have been taught to be passive. To wait for the promotion offer instead of asking for it. To wait to be chosen by a man instead of making the moves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This conditioning creates a conflict for those who feel called to move in ways that contradict this social norm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/gaiamorrissette.com\/empressgaia\/glossary\/submissive\/\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&gt;\n&lt;p&gt;The person that surrenders control and power to another in &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/gaiamorrissette.com\/empressgaia\/glossary\/bdsm\/&quot;&gt;BDSM&lt;\/a&gt; experience&lt;\/p&gt;\n&lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&gt;\"  class=\"glossaryLink \">submissive<\/a> male who longs for a <a href=\"https:\/\/gaiamorrissette.com\/empressgaia\/glossary\/dominant\/\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&gt;\n&lt;p&gt;Is the partner that is in charge in the &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/gaiamorrissette.com\/empressgaia\/glossary\/bdsm\/&quot;&gt;BDSM&lt;\/a&gt; experience&lt;\/p&gt;\n&lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&gt;\"  class=\"glossaryLink \">dominant<\/a> woman (or insert whatever genders fit you).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The dominant female who struggles to take charge even though it is who she is at her core.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The exploration into <a href=\"https:\/\/gaiamorrissette.com\/empressgaia\/glossary\/kink\/\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&gt;\n&lt;p&gt;Any sexual activity or sexual fantasy that is not vanilla.&lt;\/p&gt;\n&lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&gt;\"  class=\"glossaryLink \">kink<\/a> gives us a chance to untangle these conditioned stereotypes, but only when we can honestly acknowledge that they exist and how we are, at times, fighting an uphill battle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The opportunity to actively choose to go against our conditioning and find new opportunities comes at a cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know my own journey has not always been easy, but kink continues to gift me with a deeper understanding of who I am and what is possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All while having some super sexy times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-container-1 wp-block-buttons\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-fill\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-white-color has-text-color has-background\" href=\"https:\/\/gaiamorrissette.com\/empressgaia\/mistress-dana\/\" style=\"background-color:#c70000\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">APPLY TO SERVE MISTRESS DANA<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a general rule, I notice that men and women have been conditioned in ways that, at one time, supported the functioning of society Most men have been taught to take what they want. 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