As with in all communities there is jargon and language that you must understand to be able to truly understand the community. In the BDSM and Kink communities there are soooo many terms and jargon so Gaia has started a glossary to help you out! Declaimer:It is important to understand that each person and different BDSM communities may have different definitions for these terms. This Empress Gaia’s Definitions!