Ep.22- Chapter 3- Before Sex Communication How to become a better lover series on My Orgasmic Life Podcast with Holistic Sexual Wellness Specialist , Gaia Morrissette
So many of my clients, friends and student are always asking me How do I become a better lover Or How can I be better in bed so I have been inspired to create series dedicated to being better at sex Content Warning : Swearing, Talking about Sex, Laughter, Getting Laid, Juicy details of sexy desires
Covering in this Chapter:
*Importance of before sex communication
*Two types of before sex conversations; 1st one long before you are going have sex and 2nd- Minutes before sexy time
*How to set up the 1st conversation if you have been in a relationship or just meeting
*1st conversation – What turns you on and off? Sexual activities,grooming and body parts Ask them what turns them on and off, What words turn you on and off, Ask what are theirs, safe sex practice, kinks and fanasties that you might want to explore, Ask them , Are you vocal during pleasure? If so what kind of sounds and volume, Do you have any physical or mental issues I need to be aware of? Are you orgasmic? What does that look like for you? Then you share ,Tell them just before sex you like to have sexy conversation so we can have epic sex
*2nd Conversation just before sexy time; Asking for verbal consent, What kind of sex do you feel like? Share what kind of sex you are in the mood for! How would you like me to touch your body? Share. How is your body feeling? Share
* Practice having the 1st conversation with a good friend that you feel safe sharing with .. This will make it easier to then talk to your lover or maybe new lover
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