I am not a prude. Hell, I am far from that these days, but an alarming trend is happening that causes me to fear for the psychological safety of a particular subset of those who are drawn to kink. Sidenote: As with all things kinky, sometimes it is good fun, and sometimes it falls into …
Humiliation: Hot or Not? – by Author Dana Pharant Read More »
There is a good chance you are being coerced into participating in a prevalent non-consensual kink that is happening out in there in the DM’s of every social media. Almost daily, I see people who are playing into this non-consensual kink and are utterly unaware of how they are getting someone off. For this to …
Sitting on my couch, waiting for my client to arrive. I was dressed in a very unusual outfit for me that day. You see, my client had requested something different, and because it was something that I found intriguing and titillating, I said yes. The doorbell rang, and I get up and looked out the …
Sex Worker Puts a Kinky Spin on a 50’s Housewife Fantasy – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
The application has four simple questions, yet I am continually amazed at how much it can tell me about the applicant. But above all else, it tells me the most important thing that I need to know before accepting you into my dungeon and placing you under my expert care. The one thing that makes …
The Surprising Thing Your Application Tells Me – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
I remember sitting on her couch, both of us sipping tea. I knew I wanted to reveal my secret side. She was my best friend. I hated hiding that part of me from her. I wanted to be able to share it with her. I was ready to tell her I had a sexual preference …
What to Avoid When Coming Out as Kinky – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
As a general rule, I notice that men and women have been conditioned in ways that, at one time, supported the functioning of society Most men have been taught to take what they want. To go for jobs even if they are not fully qualified for it. To be the one to “make the moves” …
Kink and Breaking the Gender Stereotypes – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
You tell me that you know what you want, and I know you believe it to be true. But, then, when you are chained to my cross, your body tells me of a different story. It speaks to me, softly at first then crying out to be quenched of the thirst that has been stored …
I Know What You Really Crave (Tales From The Dungeon) – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
He passed the screening call and seemed to be a rather good fit for me to take on. As we dove into his hard limits list, he was honest and answered all my probing questions, allowing me to gain access to his mind before we contemplated any play. He is a sweet and gentle man, …
Submission is not Surrender – Tales from the Dungeon – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
There has been a surprising side benefit for me in choosing to lean into being a pro dominatrix. Something that I doubt I would have discovered in having a lifestyle submissive. I know, it is almost a cardinal sin to suggest that paying for your kink is better than finding that elusive and perhaps non-existent …
Healing From Patriarchy Through Kink – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
When I decided to step back into the dungeon as a paid professional, I never would have imagined that it would be as much fun as it has been. I would have thought that it would have been more clinical and detached because there is a professional agreement. But…. I have found that with my …
Drunk With Power (Tales From the Dungeon) – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
