I remember sitting on her couch, both of us sipping tea. I knew I wanted to reveal my secret side. She was my best friend. I hated hiding that part of me from her. I wanted to be able to share it with her. I was ready to tell her I had a sexual preference …
What to Avoid When Coming Out as Kinky – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
As a general rule, I notice that men and women have been conditioned in ways that, at one time, supported the functioning of society Most men have been taught to take what they want. To go for jobs even if they are not fully qualified for it. To be the one to “make the moves” …
Kink and Breaking the Gender Stereotypes – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
You tell me that you know what you want, and I know you believe it to be true. But, then, when you are chained to my cross, your body tells me of a different story. It speaks to me, softly at first then crying out to be quenched of the thirst that has been stored …
I Know What You Really Crave (Tales From The Dungeon) – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
He passed the screening call and seemed to be a rather good fit for me to take on. As we dove into his hard limits list, he was honest and answered all my probing questions, allowing me to gain access to his mind before we contemplated any play. He is a sweet and gentle man, …
Submission is not Surrender – Tales from the Dungeon – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
There has been a surprising side benefit for me in choosing to lean into being a pro dominatrix. Something that I doubt I would have discovered in having a lifestyle submissive. I know, it is almost a cardinal sin to suggest that paying for your kink is better than finding that elusive and perhaps non-existent …
Healing From Patriarchy Through Kink – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
When I decided to step back into the dungeon as a paid professional, I never would have imagined that it would be as much fun as it has been. I would have thought that it would have been more clinical and detached because there is a professional agreement. But…. I have found that with my …
Drunk With Power (Tales From the Dungeon) – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
You tell me that you know what you want, and I know you believe it to be true. But, then, when you are chained to my cross, your body tells me of a different story. It speaks to me, softly at first then crying out to be quenched of the thirst that has been stored …
I Know What You Really Crave (Tales From The Dungeon) – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
As a general rule I notice that men and women have been conditioned in ways that at one time supported the functioning of society Men, most men have been taught to take what they want. To go for jobs even if they are not fully qualified for it. To be the one to “make the …
Overriding our Conditioning to be Able to Enjoy our Kinks-Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
Kinky Travel Tips So You Dont Get Arrested-Author Dana Pharant I put my bags in the airport security for x-ray scanning and as it comes out the other side I watch the security guards pull my bag aside and pull out my fancy new bike lock. Waving the lock in front of me, I am …
Traveling As Kinky – How To Avoid Jail Time and Have Your Kinky Fun Read More »
I am want to tell you a story,, about how I reclaimed my power and healed from my childhood sexual abuse and satanic ritual abuse, using BDSM as one of the many tools on my healing journey. I know you might be saying to yourself What ! No Way! I am telling you the truth! …
