I kneel on the floor naked and waiting for my Dominant to arrive. Wanting to run, yet longing for the sweet bliss of surrender. “What am I doing? This is crazy. I should leave. This is not normal.” My subconscious protests, hoping I will put on my clothes and leave while I still can. I …
The Power of the Cuffs and Collar – Author Dana Pharant Read More »
Are you allowed to feel and seek pleasure? I was sitting in the living room with my bestie and roommate Gaia as she told me about her latest podcast interview for her podcast My Orgasmic Life. She interviewed a fellow sex therapist, each of them sharing their journey to finding pleasure and making space for …
Are You Window Shopping Your Pleasure? – by Author Dana Pharant Read More »
It happened again. I should be used to this by now, especially as a professional dominatrix. They have fantasized for years about being dominated, or spanked, or pegged or some other sexy kinky play. They gather up their courage and book a call with me. They show up for the call, and because they meet …
Why We Won’t Allow Ourselves to Explore Our Kinky Desires by Author Dana Pharant Read More »
Eeek! What have I done? That pesky voice was creeping in the morning after. Telling me all that sexy fun I had the night before is going to land me in hot water. That voice, aka the lying sack of shit that lives rent free in my head, has caused me to run away from …
Great Sex and Then Ghosted? The Weird Reason Why by Author Dana Pharant Read More »
Sitting on my couch, waiting for my client to arrive. I was dressed in a very unusual outfit for me that day. You see, my client had requested something different, and because it was something that I found intriguing and titillating, I said yes. The doorbell rang, and I get up and looked out the …
Sex Worker Puts a Kinky Spin on a 50’s Housewife Fantasy – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
The application has four simple questions, yet I am continually amazed at how much it can tell me about the applicant. But above all else, it tells me the most important thing that I need to know before accepting you into my dungeon and placing you under my expert care. The one thing that makes …
The Surprising Thing Your Application Tells Me – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
I remember sitting on her couch, both of us sipping tea. I knew I wanted to reveal my secret side. She was my best friend. I hated hiding that part of me from her. I wanted to be able to share it with her. I was ready to tell her I had a sexual preference …
What to Avoid When Coming Out as Kinky – Author Mistress Dana Pharant Read More »
