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Sex Worker Puts a Kinky Spin on a 50’s Housewife Fantasy – Author Mistress Dana Pharant

Sitting on my couch, waiting for my client to arrive. I was dressed in a very unusual outfit for me that day. You see, my client had requested something different, and because it was something that I found intriguing and titillating, I said yes. The doorbell rang, and I get up and looked out the …

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The Surprising Thing Your Application Tells Me – Author Mistress Dana Pharant

The application has four simple questions, yet I am continually amazed at how much it can tell me about the applicant.  But above all else, it tells me the most important thing that I need to know before accepting you into my dungeon and placing you under my expert care.  The one thing that makes …

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Kink and Breaking the Gender Stereotypes – Author Mistress Dana Pharant

As a general rule, I notice that men and women have been conditioned in ways that, at one time, supported the functioning of society Most men have been taught to take what they want. To go for jobs even if they are not fully qualified for it. To be the one to “make the moves” …

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I Know What You Really Crave (Tales From The Dungeon) – Author Mistress Dana Pharant

You tell me that you know what you want, and I know you believe it to be true. But, then, when you are chained to my cross, your body tells me of a different story. It speaks to me, softly at first then crying out to be quenched of the thirst that has been stored …

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Healing From Patriarchy Through Kink – Author Mistress Dana Pharant

There has been a surprising side benefit for me in choosing to lean into being a pro dominatrix. Something that I doubt I would have discovered in having a lifestyle submissive. I know, it is almost a cardinal sin to suggest that paying for your kink is better than finding that elusive and perhaps non-existent …

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Drunk With Power (Tales From the Dungeon) – Author Mistress Dana Pharant

When I decided to step back into the dungeon as a paid professional, I never would have imagined that it would be as much fun as it has been. I would have thought that it would have been more clinical and detached because there is a professional agreement. But…. I have found that with my …

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Overriding our Conditioning to be Able to Enjoy our Kinks-Author Mistress Dana Pharant

As a general rule I notice that men and women have been conditioned in ways that at one time supported the functioning of society Men, most men have been taught to take what they want. To go for jobs even if they are not fully qualified for it. To be the one to “make the …

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Traveling As Kinky – How To Avoid Jail Time and Have Your Kinky Fun

Kinky Travel Tips So You Dont Get Arrested-Author Dana Pharant I put my bags in the airport security for x-ray scanning and as it comes out the other side I watch the security guards pull my bag aside and pull out my fancy new bike lock.  Waving the lock in front of me, I am …

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